A Warm and fuzzy feeling called “YOU”

A sad dull day because of less sleep or the thought of the hard day ahead or feeling ‘am looking stupid today’..a dead tired time where all I wana do is just throw away all the stuff and hit the bed….or the time am really angry at the *&%$# day I have had…all I have to do is come to you…a smile just involuntarily appears on me…I always wonder how do I thank you for that….you give me that warm fuzzy feeling…that feeling you get when you have a hot cup of coffee when you dying of cold…or a plate of pakoras and jilebi during rainy days….like a soft soothing music makes u smile when u r agitated….

A smile that never leaves…a smiles that kinda like reminds you of being there….when you almost forget theres any good left in the world. You are not just a person, but a feeling…a feeling that makes you alive..a feeling that makes you smile for no reason…a feeling that brings sparkle to your eyes when remembered….how do you do it is what I wana know…its amazing how u can give me all the feelings in the world…all together at times….of anger of being cared for of irritation and of pure intense love……

People say its hard to find love…I say its hard to sustain it….falling in love is easy..staying in love is the hard part….and when it’s the right person…its never a hardwork is it??..yaaa wont say it’s a cakewalk…it has its highs and low….but its loadsa funn when you know it is this warm and fuzzy feeling that you ll always want for life JAm sure you thought of them when you read this!!!!

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Is professionalism all about dressing up??

ImageDoes being in the best attire make u a professional?? A big NO. It makes you look like a professional but doesn’t make you one. The culture now is all about being well dressed than actually having the values, ethics or the behavioral traits of a professional. Now the question arises of what is or who is a professional??a simple answer to it, the dictionary answer would be anyone attached a profession. Now is that so simple??..it would be great if it was. Professionalism is like a package, its not just the dressing part, its also the mannerisms, ethics, attitude et.al. Everyone now has a wrong notion that looking like one makes you one.

Here’s a funny instance: a client I met through work was pretty, well dressed and carried herself the best and the bubble burst the time she opened her mouth. The fake accent and the fake style oozing out of her was a complete turn off. Here’s the catch, she was well educated, she was in a top position and yet everything else was a dud. She made her point, didn’t understand mine, but yet tried to prove me wrong, like it was a game we were playing and she had to win. And once she was done, she walked away. Now, is that being professional??A big NO NO.

Professionalism is not something you could learn instantaneously and definitely not learnt from academics(may be the basics I agree would be learn @ your institutes), its what you learn, what you inculcate and hone it during the years of work and meeting different people and build traits of your own. There are a few basic rules of it agreed like being polite, punctual, be a listener etc etc., but even this is a combination that would portray you as a professional. So build that in you, don’t just look good, behave like a true professional, because its as easy as being YOU!!